
Menopause:
What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Feel Like Yourself Again
Let’s be honest — menopause has a reputation for being the dreaded "M-word" in women’s health. But while it’s true that it comes with its fair share of challenges (hello, hot flashes and brain fog), menopause isn’t something to fear. In fact, understanding it can be the first step toward reclaiming your vitality, clarity, and confidence.
Menopause isn’t a disease, a personal failing, or a mystery — it’s a natural life transition. And with the right knowledge and support, you can feel empowered through every phase.
What Is Menopause, Anyway?
Menopause marks the moment you’ve gone 12 consecutive months without a period. This signals the end of your reproductive years. For most women, it arrives somewhere between the ages of 40 and 58, with the average age landing around 51.
But menopause doesn’t always follow the calendar. It can arrive early due to surgery (such as removal of the ovaries or uterus), chemotherapy, or radiation treatment to the pelvis.
Did You Know?
Even after menopause, your ovaries don’t shut down completely. They continue to produce small amounts of estrogenand androgens (like testosterone), which can convert to estrogen elsewhere in the body — like in fat tissue and the adrenal glands.
The Hormonal Shifts Behind the Symptoms
As you approach menopause, your body gradually produces less estrogen and progesterone — the two primary female reproductive hormones. This decrease leads to the end of ovulation and menstrual periods, and brings on a host of new sensations and symptoms.
Before full menopause sets in, you’ll likely go through perimenopause — a fluctuating hormonal phase that can last several years. During this time, hormone levels can swing unpredictably, and symptoms may come and go.
Symptoms to Watch For
Every woman’s menopause journey is unique. Some breeze through with barely a symptom; others face a more turbulent ride. Common symptoms include:
Irregular or skipped periods
Hot flashes and night sweats
Sleep disturbances
Vaginal dryness
Brain fog or forgetfulness
Mood changes or anxiety
Weight gain, especially around the middle
Painful sex
None of these symptoms are “just in your head.” They are real, biologically driven responses to hormone changes. And you don’t have to suffer in silence.
When Should You See a Doctor?
Not everyone needs medical treatment for menopause — it’s as natural as getting your first period. But if you’re experiencing frequent or bothersome symptoms, it’s time to talk to a trusted provider.
A visit is especially important if you have:
Significant sleep issues
Discomfort during sex
Intense mood swings or anxiety
Difficulty with memory or concentration
Bleeding after 12 months of no periods
These are not just “normal changes” you have to put up with. They’re your body’s way of asking for support.
First Step: Get Tested
If you’re feeling “off,” tired, irritable, or just not like yourself — it might be time to take a deeper look at your hormone levels. One of the most effective tools in this stage of life is hormone testing.
According to Dr. Barbara Rush, ND, salivary hormone testing is one of the best methods for understanding which hormones are imbalanced and what steps to take. (See her full article on hormone testing for more details.)
“It is amazing how much better a woman can feel after Bioidentical Hormone Replacement Therapy (BHRT) is started. I remember one woman told me that she felt like she was in her 20’s again.”
— Dr. Barbara Rush, ND
Treatment Plans Tailored to You
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to menopause. That’s why individualized care is so essential. Based on testing, symptoms, and overall health, a variety of options are available — many of which Dr. Rush has used to help thousands of women feel vibrant again.
Here’s What an Effective Menopause Plan May Include:
✅ Lifestyle Recommendations
Targeted nutrition and exercise tailored to hormonal changes can reduce hot flashes, boost mood, and support weight management.
✅ Prescription Medication
Including Bioidentical Hormone Replacement Therapy (BHRT) — a plant-derived therapy that mimics your body’s own hormones to gently restore balance.
✅ Preventative Screenings
Age-appropriate health screenings, like bone density and cardiovascular checks, help prevent long-term complications during and after menopause.
✅ Spiritual and Emotional Wellness
Menopause isn’t just a physical transition — it’s emotional too. Support for mental and spiritual balance can help women navigate this phase with grace and self-compassion.
✅ Nutritional Support at the Cellular Level
As hormones fluctuate, nutritional needs shift too. Supplement support — such as those found on Dr. Rush’s Fullscript platform — can address inflammation, sleep, metabolism, and more.
What You Need to Know About BHRT
Bioidentical Hormone Replacement Therapy has become a popular option for managing menopause symptoms — and for good reason. It uses hormones that are chemically identical to the ones your body naturally produces, offering a more tailored and gentle alternative to traditional hormone therapy.
For many women, BHRT helps:
Improve energy
Restore sleep quality
Reduce hot flashes and night sweats
Enhance libido
Lift mood and mental clarity
The key is working with a knowledgeable provider to customize your dose and track progress.
Menopause Isn’t the End — It’s a New Beginning
Yes, menopause marks the end of your reproductive years — but it also opens the door to a new phase of freedom, strength, and self-understanding. With the right care, you can navigate this transition not just surviving, but thriving.
So if you're feeling foggy, fiery, or just not quite yourself — take heart. Support is available. Hormone testing, BHRT, nutrition, and lifestyle support can help you feel balanced, vibrant, and maybe even a little bit like your 20-something self again.
Because menopause doesn’t mean less of you.
It just means a different kind of you — wiser, bolder, and absolutely capable of feeling great again.